a3dy the melancholic
about us
Identity (collective)
★ NAME ANDREW (unless otherwise specified)
★ age 13
★ PRONOUNS xe/xyr he/him (unless otherwise specified) (see more)
★ FRIENDSHIP AGE PREFERANCE 12-19
★ sex intersex
★ GRSM demifluid, aceflux-omnisexual, demi-caed-almondromantic, ambiamorous
★ mbti intp-t
Interests (collective)
★ pharmacy and pharmacology
★ mathematics
★ psychiatry and psychology (including brain and other body studies)
★ history and creation of the periodic table
★ reported cannibalism and it's psychological affects
★ relationship types and other love research
★ astronomy and space studies
★ programming (html, css, javascript)
★ etymology, lexicology, and general language
★ music and how it affects our brains and bodies
★ plant and animal crossbreeding
★ intersex conditions and hormone interactions
★ other health and disability
★ stone age weapon crafting
★ media (text, series, movie, art, etc.) analysis, annotation, and interpretations
★ traditional art
Diagnostic History
KEY
★ undiagnosed !
★ in the process of diagnosis ^
★ diagnosed #
Pyshical
★ gerd (gastroesophagael reflux disease) #
★ CM (chronic migraines) #
★ hypersomnia #
★ hyperadrenergic pots (postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome) ^
★ Pvd (peripheral vascular disease) ^
★ me/cfs (Myalgic encephalomyelitis / chronic fatigue syndrome) ^
★ TS (tourettes syndrome) ^
★ heds (hypermobile elers danlos syndrome) with cataplexy ^
★ dysphagia ^
★ Asthma !
★ espilepsy !
★ scoliosis !
Mental
★ DID (dissociative identity disorder) #
★ MDD (major depressive disorder) #
★ GAD (generalised anxiety disorder) #
★ social and communication difficulties #
★ c-PTSD (complex - post-traumatic stress disorder) #
★ Dyslexia #
★ gender dysphoria #
★ Dyspraxia/SCD(Sensory Coordination disorder) ^
★ Schizoaffective depressive type ^
★ ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) ^
★ Alexithymia ^
★ ADHD (Attention deficit / hyperactivity disorder) ^
★ APD (auditory processing disorder) ^
★ Disordered appetite
★ OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) ^
★ bpd (borderline personality disorder) ^
★ npd (narcissistic personality disorder) ^
★ aspd (antisocial personality disorder) ^
★ Dissociative amnesia ^
★ DP/DR (Depersonalization/derealization disorder) ^
★ hypersexual disorder !
★ synaesthesia !
Do Not Interact if
★ ships real people repeatedly
★ radical feminist
★ uses slurs to offend rather than to reclaim
★ belief that sexualising real-life people without consent is okay
★ belief that sexualising fictional children is okay
★ cant consume criticism against people they like and defending them
★ forces own beliefs on others
★ catholics
★ against the idea of polyamory/ambiamory
★ incestBasic dni
★ homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, islamophobic, etc.
★ misogynistic
★ racist, sexist, ableist, discrimination, etc.
★ invalidates a person's pronouns / gender / identity
★ pedophile, sexualizes minors, jokes about rape, etc.
supports, participates, tolerates, or justifies any of the above.
Before you interact
★ we are fluent in Polish and English★ happy to answer any questions [and take suggestions to add to this carrd]★we have a flat/innapropriate affect/emotional reaction [because of our schizophrenia and ASD] please don't make fun of it [some alters experience it more strongly]★ please reassure us that our hallucinations aren't there and that our delusions aren't real, our psychosis is serious and not something to play along with.★ we appreciate it if you use tone tags for us and/or explain social situations to us if you know us in person [to help with our asd]★ we are very sensitive to criticism so please ask before giving critisism so we dont have a [bpd splitting] episode and leave you as a method to save us from abandonment if you do not want that [to help with our npd and bpd]★ we make typos a lot so please correct us if you notice them or ask me to rewrite my texts if they are illegible [to help with our dyslexia]★ do not tell us we are 'weak'/'fragile'/'lazy' because of our disabilities [wether they are mental or physical]★if we do abandon you please do not spam us in the same week that we did, it could be because of school, working on ourselves, mental health issues, etc. it will just make us ignore you for longer. if we blocked you and you have another way to contact us please wait 2 weeks before trying that way unless it is in person or we will probably block you there to 'protect ourselves'.★ do not devalue us [to help with our narcissistic traits]★ if we switch during a coversation and you are aware please ask who is fronting and introduce yourself and tell the current fronter to read the previous texts to catch up on the conversation.★ please don't trigger us with the listed things in our DNI★ don't tell us to do shitty things to ourselves or others, we have aspd and will exploit said person too much and do illegal things if i were to listen★ don't try to make me reslapse★ we have right to slurs offending= eastern europeans, people of different grsms, my disabilities [to take their power away]
commisions
★ All requested pieces are exclusive customs being sold nowhere else, with only my time being spent on them, and no other source of income. Please don't argue about prices for these reasons ★Simply message for requests!Traditional: Open
digital: closed until 2025Portfolio (see my Instagram @melancholic_a3dy)pricing:
25% deposit prior, other 75% paid after seen with watermark and low quality, then commission delivered.★ effort fee
£14 x hours spent
★ sizing fee
£5 for A5
£10 for a4
£30 for a3
(others vary)
★ equipment fee
£3 for graphite drawing
£15 for digital
£15 for paintings
★ complexity fee
Characters:
£1 bust
£2 full body
£1.50 for large amounts of detail and/or style
£3 for realism
(other subjects vary)
★ shipping fee for traditional (varies)
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